😱 Imagine the Worst Relative Raising Your Kids… Because You Didn’t Nominate a Guardian
The Story You Never Want Your Children Living
By Mike Massey Law, PLLC – Estate Planning for Parents Who Love Deeply and Plan Wisely
🧃 Picture This…
You’re gone.
And now, the people deciding your kids’ future don’t really know you. They’re not thinking about values, bedtime prayers, or the way your daughter panics when she’s overwhelmed. They’re looking for someone “qualified.”
The judge doesn’t know you had an uncle who drinks too much. Or that your in-laws constantly belittled your parenting. Or that your cousin would move your kids across the country, away from everyone they know.
And because you never legally nominated a guardian, the court:
Picks someone, but sadly, the last person on earth you would have chosen, because you never would have chosen them…not in a million years.
Your children — already grieving — are now under the care of the relative you NEVER wanted to raise them.
😔 It Happens More Than You’d Think
We’ve seen heartbreaking situations like this unfold — not because parents didn’t care, but because they didn’t plan in time.
They thought:
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“We’re too young for that.”
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“We’ve talked about it. Everyone knows what we want.”
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“We’ll get to it next year.”
But estate planning isn’t just about assets. It’s about people.
It’s about making sure the people you love most are raised by the people you trust most.
🧠 What Happens When You Don’t Nominate a Guardian?
| Without a Guardian Nomination | With a Guardian Nomination |
|---|---|
| Court chooses based on petitions or assumptions | Court gives strong deference to your nomination |
| Potential CPS or foster care during confusion | Immediate care can be given to your chosen people |
| Family conflict over custody | Clear instructions help prevent disputes |
| Kids might be uprooted or emotionally confused | Kids stay with someone familiar and consistent |
✅ Here’s What You Can Do Today
Create a simple, legally valid document that:
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Names a permanent guardian
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Names a temporary guardian if the permanent one lives far away
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Expresses your values and desires clearly to the court
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Ensures your kids never become legal pawns or land in the wrong home
It doesn’t have to be overwhelming. And you don’t have to do it alone.
💬 Is this you?
“I couldn’t sleep after realizing that if we both died, our kids would end up with my sister. She’s family, but… she’s NOT who I want raising them.”
We can help you with:
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Guardian nomination form ✅
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Temporary guardians lined up ✅
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Estate plan started ✅
📅 Let’s Make Sure the Right Hands Catch Your Kids
If life takes an unexpected turn, don’t let the court guess who you would’ve chosen.
📞 Schedule a free guardianship planning call today:
👉 https://mytxwills.com/book-a-meeting/
📜 Disclaimer
This content is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Reading this post does not establish an attorney-client relationship with Mike Massey Law, PLLC. Please consult with a licensed attorney for personalized legal guidance.
